We’ve been asked a few times to provide a thread for discussing the Church’s teaching on cohabitation. Better late than never, then, this is it!
When asked a number of years ago if he would write a pastoral letter on the subject, Bishop Devine of the Diocese of Motherwell declined, saying it would be too “divisive”. It is so common now, that some parents are asking why the Church won’t just accept their children’s living arrangements and let them approach for Holy Communion if they wish.
Indeed, it was during the Diocesan Assembly some years ago, following a remark along those lines from a mother of cohabiting children, that the Bishop made his “divisive” comment. This is one of those elephants in the room that the bishops simply ignore.
Odd, really, given how readily they exhort the Government to legislate in conformity with Christian values.
Anyway, click here to read about Cohabitation and the Church’s teaching and then share your thoughts. Does cohabitation affect your family? How do you handle the matter? Should the bishops write pastoral letters reminding the faithful that cohabitation is a grave sin? Should couples be instructed to live apart prior to marriage, before being permitted to marry in a Catholic church?
